We Don’t Do Blind Obedience.

Growing up, we were taught that a “good kid” listens the first time, that obedience means respect, and that saying “Because I said so” is a legitimate reason. But here’s what we now know: Obedience doesn’t equal emotional health. Obedience doesn’t equal self-respect. Obedience doesn’t equal safety. In fact, blind obedience often comes at the cost of those th…